Monday, November 21, 2016
We cross the street every day
without thinking we could be hit by a car. Does that guarantee we can't be a fatality? Of course not. Accidents
happen all the time. We've learned to live with these everyday risks not because we've been reassured, but because we
simply are habituated to it. The good news is that if you've overcome fears of these everyday situations--learning to
ride a bicycle, learning to swim, etc.--then you WILL also overcome the anxiety that has put your life on hold. You,
and millions of people going through the same thing, can be hopeful of overcoming this problem once and for all!
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Thursday, November 17, 2016
The natural way of overcoming fear
By contrast, we know the more
we avoid uncomfortable things, the more we become fearful of them. In fact, we could make you afraid of something simply
by telling you to avoid it, even if you never actually encountered it. Isn't it surprising how fearful people can be
of others who are different from ourselves or who live in other countries, despite never even meeting them? That's because
they grew up being told to avoid certain types of people. Yet when we are exposed to them long enough, we become more
comfortable around them. In fact people can be quite comfortable with even negative people and negative situations,
for better or worse, simply through exposure and familiarity. As long as they know what they are getting themselves
into, good or bad, they're comfortable.
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Tuesday, November 15, 2016
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In fact, it is physiologically impossible to remain
fearful of anything with continued exposure to it. Think of firefighters, police, soldiers, doctors, and pilots. They
weren't born fearless; they slowly became that way by exposure to successive approximations of their occupations. Sadly,
this is true even of people in war torn countries. We are dumbfounded watching people go to work, school, hairdressers,
and weddings while bullets fly over their heads. They've been exposed enough times to become desensitized to it.
Thursday, October 6, 2016
OCD, panic, PTSD, and social anxiety are just like other common phobias.
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Exposure is the natural way people overcome fear of anything. Even the most primitive
animal organisms eventually habituate to uncomfortable stimuli through exposure. We all know people who have phobias--flying,
dogs, darkness, tall buildings. (I have a phobia of mice!) We know that people overcome these common fears just
by gradually getting closer to and spending more time in those feared situations in small baby steps. But those baby steps
eventually add up to a dramatic difference. OCD, social anxiety, and panic are no different from these phobias, except
it's harder to avoid thoughts, people, and travel. But it's the same thing and is equally treatable.
Tuesday, September 27, 2016
How do I know I will get better?
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Practically anyone can do exposure therapy and
get rid of excessive anxiety. Exposure is the only therapy that is endorsed by all national anxiety organizations, whether
it is OCD, social anxiety, agoraphobia, panic disorder, PTSD, and phobias. If a therapist does not use exposure as their
main technique, they will not help you. It is not sufficient if they say they use CBT. CBT is a very general term
that includes dozens of techniques, including many that are not helpful to anxiety and some which will make it worse. Exposure
is a special CBT technique specifically for anxiety disorders.
Moreover, you've been doing exposure
your whole life and successfully overcome hundreds of fears. It's normal to be nervous or fearful in a new situation--the
first day at a new school or job, the first time you met your significant other, the first time you did a new activity. Yet
you overcame your initial fears by continuing to do the uncomfortable activity; that's exposure! Some have even become
sources of great joy---a new sport or career, a happy marriage, etc. (to be continued)
Sunday, September 7, 2014
New article on Wall Street Journal
Here's a follow up on an article I was quoted on 4 years ago. http://online.wsj.com/articles/where-are-new-yorks-bedbugs-now-1409337589.
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Wednesday, February 26, 2014
Check out this article on HOCD on ABC News: http://abcnews.go.com/Health/homosexual-ocd-straight-men-fear-gay/story?id=22589452
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Thursday, February 13, 2014
WHAT'S THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN CBT AND EXPOSURE THERAPY? Every therapist says they treat anxiety. Every therapist says (and
believes) they use cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT). In fact very few do. There is only one therapy that eliminates anxiety
disorders. Its called Exposure Therapy. What is exposure therapy? Exposure is the only therapy that is endorsed by all
national anxiety organizations, whether it is OCD, social anxiety, agoraphobia, panic disorder, PTSD, and phobias. If a therapist
does not use exposure as their main technique, they will not help you. It is not sufficient if they say they use CBT. CBT
is a very general term that includes dozens of techniques, including many that are not helpful to anxiety and some which will
make it worse. Exposure is a special CBT technique specifically for anxiety disorders.
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Check out this PTSD article in NJ Monthly: http://digital.njmonthly.com/njmonthly/october_2013/m3/Page.action?pg=60
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Check out this OCD citation on my former client's web site: http://linniem52.hubpages.com/hub/ocdhelp
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